Anal play is any kind of sexual activity that involves your butt. This can include: Putting fingers around/inside someone's butt; Putting a tongue around/inside someone's butt (rimming); Putting a penis* inside someone's butt; Putting a dildo or other sex toy inside someone's butt; Putting a hand inside someone's butt ( fisting). Want to know more about using butt plugs? Here is a guide with the best anal sex toys and helpful tips for maximum anal pleasure. 24 Mar That said, if you're having anal sex with a silicone toy (like a strap-on or a dildo), or engaging in anal play with a silicone butt plug, go with a water-based lube and just make sure to use a lot. (Silicone breaks down silicone, and you don't want your toys breaking down inside your butt.) Whether you're having.